Self Evaluation (reflection on practicum experience)
When the semester started I set out to learn about another culture, society, and educational upbringing of young children so I could take what I learn and apply it to next semester’s program, as well as the work I will do in my future. Now, at the end of this semester I have found just about all of my goals fulfilled, and even achieved some goals along the way that I did not originally set.
At first I did not think the pedagogues at my daycare were interested in sharing knowledge, experiences, and ideas with me, however over the semester they have opened up and taught me so much about the children I work with each day, as well as the backgrounds of the families at the daycare and the relationships amongst the community. Sharing cultural background with the pedagogues gave me an opportunity to learn about cultures from different perspectives because many of them came from all around the world. They truly believe it is important for the children to be immersed in this multicultural atmosphere so the children have the opportunity to learn about other parts of the world; other foods, customs and traditions.
Personal contact and interaction with children is incredibly important to their development, and though sometimes I felt like a “playmate” for the children at my daycare, there was never once I wanted or wished for something different. As I predicted, communicating with the children was difficult for there was a great language barrier not only within my practicum daycare, but also in many of schools we visited during our study tours. Now, looking back on my first day at the daycare I remember staring blankly at the children when they asked me questions, basically because they spoke Danish and none of which I understood. However, as my days at the daycare increased I found myself progressing tremendously from asking pedagogues to help translate to more closely observing the children’s body language. From interacting with the children and working through this language barrier I have learned that it is easy to cope with language problems by use other means of communicating: body language, physical interaction, facial expressions, dances, etc.
My last few visits at my daycare have been my most memorable times spent with the children because our relationships have developed in unique individual ways. I have learned there will always be those children who are quiet and held back, such as one little girl in my group who loves to sit on my lap and follow me around, insisting on holding my hand when we go on trips, but who will only whisper sometimes in her responses; if and when there actually are any. On a different note I will remember Matias who would laugh shouting “Nej” when I would insist that I too speak Danish. Line has taught me that it is possible to communicate through visual recognition. She would take me over to things and point them out when trying to capture my attention. She would sit on my lap and tell me the story of the characters in books by pointing to them each; naming the colors of the clothes, what they were wearing and describing their actions. Then there will always be Nikolai, and I know we were not really supposed to pick favorites, but this boy is by far the one boy I always looked forward to seeing each week. My contact with him was much different than with the other children and through him I learned so much that I could not from the others. He loved to grab my attention, then run away expecting me to run after him and catch him, but taught me through this that children’s moods can change in a split second. After playing the same game over and over again for weeks on end, one week I caught him and swung him in the air causing him to get very angry with me.
Through working one on one with the children I have learned more than books themselves can explain. Having the opportunity to be immersed in a child’s play activity has given me a chance to not only learn about the ages in which children develop, but the different steps each child takes in doing so. You really do learn a great deal more when actively participating in the activities with the children rather than simply observing them. It gives you first hand knowledge you would otherwise not have and allows you to gain a frame of reference and observe the child’s experience from the position they are in. For example, during my Smore’s Sandwich making experience I learned no two children have the same capabilities. From working with them in a group I watched as some relied on me for help while others tried to make it completely all on their own. I was able to see how they attempted different tasks and understand why they took the steps they did. It is very difficult to allow a child to take responsibility to do things on their own, but when given the chance it can be very rewarding.
I would like to touch upon the receiving school in The Netherlands, for the impression it left on me was so life-fulfilling. Sometimes I think it is hard to learn Danish, but when you think about it I have the ability to choose whether or not to learn it. I can still get around and survive without speaking it here because Denmark speaks my mother-tongue language as well. However, the children at the receiving school in the Netherlands were a prime example of how necessary it is to learn the majority’s language because none of them spoke Dutch of English. To teach the children Dutch, the staff there spoke only Dutch to the children, not only because that was the language they needed to learn, but also because that was the only language the faculty spoke. Through the experience of spending a day at that school, I have seen how difficult it is for children to come into another country, but how essential these schools are because of the opportunities they offer. Looking beyond the language stimulation program, the school has much more to offer; perhaps things that are a bit more difficult to see. The benefits for children to grow and learn in a multicultural atmosphere are innumerable. The children at the receiving school were so friendly and accepting of each other. I watched children from Somalia, Syria, Pakistan, China and various other countries all playing with each other. Watching all of the children interact really just made me think a lot about the nonjudgmental nature of children. There is a world out there, where people do get along and have learned how to accept those who are different. Perhaps this is the world more people need to see, the world more people need to learn from; a school that looks beyond race and ethnicity and sees what each child has uniquely to offer.
I am excited to go back to Alfred University and sharing my experiences with my fellow students, but more importantly with my professors. At Alfred I am studying child and clinical psychology. More than anything, I am eager to share with my professors the amount of responsibilities adults put on these four year olds I work with. I have learned that children are capable of much more than we can conceive and when given the opportunity the things children may really surprise us. Watching four year olds cut potatoes with knives, climb trees without help (or supervision), run around in the pen with the goats (even while some of them knock their horns with each other) are just some things I observed at my daycare that intrigued me. I look forward to to taking these experiences and passing them on in hopes that the world of child development will grow and expand more than ever because from what I have learned it already has seemed to.

